Gift Idea: male or female?

differences between gifts for him and gifts for her

The gift for him must be different from the gift for her: everyone know that. Men and women differ in how they intend the gift. When a man unwraps a gift packet for his birthday firstly thinks about its usefulness for himself: to guess a gift for man then you will need to ask you: "is this useful? is this something that he already has or is not? Does this meet with his interests?"

It is not so difficult to understand what passions a man has, if he talks to her for ten minutes, eight of those will be spent talking about what HE is considering and HIS interests, the remaining time to pretend to pay attention to what she is saying.
Likewise, if the gift does not catch his attention, will be easy to understand: he will absently thank and will put package along with the decorated and hand-made greeting card on the first surface in range of his hand.

In gifts for her, instead, all have its importance: giftwrap, greeting card, package, greeting phrase, place in which you give her the gift, the weather during that day and, finally, the gift itself. Everything will be kept in her implacable memory and the giftwrap and the greeting card will be put in some drawer if they are pretty. This does not mean that idea or usefulness does not matter but, for her, the question you have to ask yourself is not as much "how much she needs this gift?" but rather "how will it influence her feeling?". The answer should be: she will feel more beautiful, lighter, prettier, more intelligent, more "something", in short.

If you do not know what to give her you are her boyfriend then solution is very easy.. try to think about what she said during days before the occasion (birthday, anniversary): she certainly have spoken in every way about what she would like, maybe even pointing to a nearby shop window when you were walking together. If you only could remember it.
The gift idea is not good? even in this case it will be easy to find out: the more she will thank you (probably without hugging or touching you), the more what you choose is just disgusting for her.

I was forgiving: I hope that nobody takes too seriously what I've written so far. :-)

A brief summary: This page talks about gifts for men and suggests gifts for her, and even if I did not specify birthday gift, to mark the occasion there is that, too.